Most people’s impression of realistic sex doll owners is otaku, bachelor, withdrawn… They usually don’t contact the opposite sex, and most of them marry late. But in fact, related reports show that married customers account for 30%-40% of sex doll buyers. Some couples who are infertile or choose their own DINK will buy sex dolls as children; widowed elderly seek spiritual sustenance through sex dolls. The main reason for these things is that other than sex dolls, it is difficult to find more realistic humanoid models.

Do you see sex dolls as family?

LifeLike Sex dolls are an alternative and fulfillment to real life, but they are very similar to the psychology of love, but more inclined to possess and control a person. Some people may be frustrated in real life, it is difficult to establish a better real relationship, or some psychological needs in reality cannot be met, so this part of the fantasy can be satisfied in the virtual world.

Another feature of life-size sex dolls is control and irresistibility. Some people may not be able to express their wishes with a real partner, but it can be fulfilled from a doll. Sex isn’t dirty, it’s a choice whether it’s sex or not.

Why do you need a sex doll if you have a partner?

Dolls can’t replace real people, but they can get some emotional satisfaction. There is feedback between people’s real emotions. I have feelings for you, and you have feelings for me. In a real sex doll, it has no way to feedback its own emotions, or in other words, this emotional feedback is just the owner’s imagination.

　　
For example, if you buy a dress for your sweetheart, she may be cold or happy to indicate whether she likes the dress, but dolls will never get such feedback. Real emotions have power in people and affect their changes. In real life, people have a lot of helplessness and incompetence, but imagination can also bring happiness to people. It creates a safe area for people. But this is only your own world, not the real outside world.

True intimacy is mutual equality and autonomy. On the one hand, sex dolls are also a manifestation of the desire for control in a partner, while in reality, people’s desire for control is stronger. Data surveys show that the vast majority of lovers cannot avoid quarrels in a cycle. When partners are unable to come to a physical or mental agreement, other solutions need to be found.